Nobody ever wants that constant nag in their life. 

A pull that incessantly snatches at the shoulder of your mind. Tugging to get more attention. Ignoring the nag simply puts another ‘hey we’ve missed you and would like your undivided attention’ voicemail recordings to your memory bank.

I think it’s important in our line of work to really watch out when we become a nag instead of a reminder. It’s difficult to see the difference.

The reminder comes from the mindset of being an advocate. I’m dental coach Lam for the day, and I can draw up all the best dental plays for your mouth, but at the end of the day, it’s still up to you to decide to execute or not. 

If I become the coach who harps on you during practice, calls you after dinner to remind you of your extra reps, and that you need to do those 2 crowns on the upper right… you’re probably feeling a bit more antsy about having me as coach.

Advocates care, but don’t care.

I think as a dental advocate, I genuinely care to create a treatment plan that helps my patients with their oral needs. I believe what I can do, with the technology at hand, it’s the best possible dentistry I’m able to deliver. Maybe in a decade or two, we will be placing a special tooth growing gel after extractions that grow new tooth buds. Maybe a bite block that has tiny little micro lasers and reamers to do endo from start to finish. All AI driven of course.

But those advanced technologies don’t quite exist yet. So in its stead, we have our advocacy. Aiming to ‘do the right thing’. And speaking of new tech, maybe it’s a good idea to be open minded about what our recommendations are.

Things change, if you’ve been reading this blog for a while, we’ve been covering everything from Bitcoin to Busted Amalgams.

It’s easier to attract flies with honey and not vinegar.

You know how annoying it is when you get nagged, so why do it to others. 

Thrive away my friend,

Lam